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@allyson. I think you would like this

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whew! the anxiety around men and presuming that's just being nervous and taking it as interest is SO REAL. once I got to uni, every single time I sensed a guy was attracted to me it would activate my flight response and yet it took me another 5 years to realize I wasn't actually attracted to men because honestly I do find men aesthetically attractive fairly frequently. and it is terrifying to admit you aren't interested in men when we are taught to filter our desires through them

this is such a good essay. thank you for sharing. sending love <3

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